The Coach
"Certified Addiction Professional & Relationship Coach"

Welcome To An Exciting Journey

This site is based on 30 years of experience, research and clinical care of thousands of people who presented me with a wide variety of physical, behavioral and spiritual conditions.

During those years I thought that I knew how to remove most every cause of their problems.   But, what I came to realize is that acquiring knowledge and applying that knowledge is a process that I had to work on every day. And for this understanding I am thankful.

What I learned about life, in part, sadden me but has also left me with a burning desire to improve my understanding of interpersonal behavior especially the mind-body relationships. Nevertheless, occasionally I tripped over my own pride, and quickly learned that practicing the basic spiritual values is vitally important because it creates an atmosphere of mutual trust and love within any relationship.  Unfortunately, I had to find this out the hard way through a personal relationship meltdown.

Therefore, it is my hope that the books and articles I have written, "My Journey To Forgiveness" and "Conflict In Relationships", and the many articles that appear here at this site, will light a fire under those who read them and with the flame of hope that will burn away frustrating years of despair by practicing trial-and-error methods.

Search this site freely and read with an open mind.  I'm probably assuming that there are many readers who, like me, believed that if "I've thought about it in my head, then it's as if I've already have done it."  Of course, that is not true!  Learning is a process that takes place on the playing field of life. Living in your head will not prepare you for the real thing!  Remember, the only thing we can change in life is the perception of our own reality through the process of consistently reminding our mind and your heart to think and feel differently. Then the communities, in which you live, whether with your spouse, family, friends or fellow workers, will see the changes in your behavior that they will want to model for themselves.

I am available for consultation and coaching on the Internet.  Please click on my name for his e-mail address. The Coach

Yours for a better relationship,


The Coach

 

 

 

 

 

Eliminating the web of addiction in our Families...


 

What Is Love?

Love is the most important ingredient in life.  We all go towards love, we thrive on love, grow on love, and would die without it.

Love cannot be held and placed in a box for use later.  It is an energy that encircles us and it exists everywhere.

Love is a feeling in the body, in the emotions,
and ultimately in the spiritual realms.  It is an
experience, a knowing, a connection to another human being, to nature and to God.

If you want to increase
love in your life, you must be willing to let go of your past behavior. You must believe in your ability to love even more than you have ever loved in the past.


Letting go of the Past

"You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion"

-PSALM 139:16

Today, I will let go of my guilt and fear about my past circumstances.  I will trust that where I have been and where I am now are are right for me.

 


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